Speed Dating Advice For Men
Have
you ever done Speed Dating, or any other different versions of this
trend? I’ve done it a few times over the years, and despite what I
first thought, it was an absolute blast. I kept thinking about that
part of 40 Year Old Virgin, with all the crazy women there, but it was
nothing like that. My experience, too, is your gain. Here are a few
tips to help you out.You’ll want to take care of a few things before
you walk out that door though. To start, your hygiene should be tip
top. You are making an impression in a short time, so it will be
scrutinized even harder than normal. Clean yourself up, trim your nails
neat, clip that nose hair. But once it is done, when you are ready to
walk out that door, be DONE with it, save for a pack of mints for the
dating itself.The same thing goes for your clothing. Clean obviously,
but dress to impress. I wouldn’t go too showy, just make yourself look
good. Polish your shoes, hit the jacket with the lint brush, and take
care of any details.Another thing to do is practice before you go. Not
just some lines, or routines, but spontaneity. How does one practice
that? By saying what immediately comes to mind when having a
conversation. That sounds crazy, I know, but practice with a friend.
The result is that you sound more genuine. Put in a bit of time with
this, it’ll help.I tried something new lately – using the first date to
warm up. Luckily, she wasn’t beautiful, and it allowed me to make as
many mistakes as necessary to get in a groove. The rest of the evening
got much easier. I also found it was great, because I tried it when I
was out of town, and it allowed me to get a feel for the women in a new
area. I went to an 8 Minute Dating in Edmonton while out on business,
and landed a really easy date with a beautiful woman.Make sure to bring
a lot of positive energy to the table with you. Really amp it up. It’s
infectuous and you’ll make a wonderful impression. People will remember
you if they enjoyed your company.When you do that, you’ll also be able
to take advantage of the other guy’s mistakes. Trust me, they’ll make a
lot. The biggest is being uptight and nervous. If you can avoid that,
you’ll look like a million bucks after they’ve dealt with some nervous,
twitchy, uncomfortable guy. It helps when you smile while doing this,
and relax. You’ll allow them to do the same, and fun will happen!During
the conversation, you’ll do far better if you show genuine interest in
them, but as well, be ready to carry the conversation when they ask you
a question. A good conversation should be back and forth, and neither
side should feel drilled.Also, make sure not to drink too much. This
will blow your chances faster than anything. If they wanted a drunk
guy, they’d hit a slum bar and do just fine. Don’t be that guy.When the
time is about to run out, and you are having fun, go ahead and “close”
with her. Let her know you had a great time, and that you’d love to
continue the conversation. If she appears to be having fun, it should
be very easy to get the next date with her.Remember, the whole thing is
about making a great impression in the small amount of time that you
have. Work with what I’ve given you above, and you should see some
great success when it comes to speed dating.