Speed-dating hits the Coastal Empire to help
daters find a match.
Amy
Morris 912.652.0358 amy.morris@savannahnow.com
How long does it take to size up a date?
Last night at The Monkey Bar/Fusion restaurant on
Broughton Street, it took eight minutes.
A group of 20 Savannah singles, 10 men and 10 women,
plunked down $35 for a chance to meet that special
someone Tuesday evening during "8minuteDating." The
speed-dating event guarantees single men and women at
least eight, eight-minute long one-on-one "dates."
"Most people know within eight minutes if they want
to pursue the conversation," said Judy Mullen, the
creator of the event.
The premise is simple, two people, each wearing a
name tag - first names only please - and a number, chat
each other up for the prescribed amount of time. When
time is up, a bell rings, and they move on to someone
else. No phone numbers on napkins, no promises to call,
no awkward should-we-or-shouldn't-we kiss moments.
After the event is over, daters go online and contact
those they want to meet again, whether for dating,
friendship, or business.
This rejection-free environment is one of the reasons
speed dating has gained popularity all over the country
in recent years.
Mullen has been single in Savannah for the last 13
years and as the owner of Reflections on the River
salon, she hears complaints all the time from men and
women about the dearth of places to meet available
singles.
Speed-dating newbie, Mike, 43, agrees.
"I don't stay out until 3 a.m. anymore, so it's a
little tougher to meet women," he said.
Marcia, 31, also a speed-dating novice, thinks that
too many Savannah bars and clubs cater strictly to the
20-something crowd.
"I used to go to places like Deja Groove, but that
got old very quickly," she said. "I just want to meet
new people and have some good conversation." |